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Kyon said:
My father is almost 50, he's starting to get grey-ish hair already. This makes me real upset, that one day my father will disappear from the earth, to never see him again. I want to be with my family forever, I don't want to lose anyone - ever.
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Speaking as an idealist, this is unfortunately an unavoidable fact of life. As such, we shouldn't concern ourselves with trying to avoid losing loved ones. Instead, we should be more concerned with making the best of what time we have left with them. Inevitably, that time will run out. The important part is that it means as much to you and your loved ones as possible. Don't cower in the face of death, and instead celebrate life.

So basically, what they just said, but with more words.
 
I don't want to lose my father, he can be mean but he's still a huge part of my life and I never want him to leave this earth. The feeling of never hugging him again, never talking to him again hurts me badly.

Same goes for my mother, I don't want to lose either of my parents ever. I don't want to lose my grandparents either, my grandpa lost his foot a few months ago, I'm scared I'll wake up one day and they are no longer here to give me a hug, or spend some time with them.

I remember the day I woke up and my parents were walking around the house, they all had worried looks on their faces, my father told me with a sad face that my sister's boyfriend hung himself, just a few days earlier I talked to him, left and said "See you later" and I never did, at his funeral his oldest (4 at the time) found his photo, started kissing it and asking where his dad was, it was heart breaking.
 
You can lose anyone at any moment, which is why I never stay mad at any of my family members, even my younger sister , because she can be a real pain sometimes. I do my best to keep them happy, to make sure I say I love them before I leave, if I were to lose somebody close, I want to make sure they know I care.
 
Kyon said:
I don't want to lose my father, he can be mean but he's still a huge part of my life and I never want him to leave this earth. The feeling of never hugging him again, never talking to him again hurts me badly.

Same goes for my mother, I don't want to lose either of my parents ever. I don't want to lose my grandparents either, my grandpa lost his foot a few months ago, I'm scared I'll wake up one day and they are no longer here to give me a hug, or spend some time with them.

I remember the day I woke up and my parents were walking around the house, they all had worried looks on their faces, my father told me with a sad face that my sister's boyfriend hung himself, just a few days earlier I talked to him, left and said "See you later" and I never did, at his funeral his oldest (4 at the time) found his photo, started kissing it and asking where his dad was, it was heart breaking.
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Son.... I rabu.. now let's go out to fish. Anyone who wants to join us fish say aye.
 
Don't we have a thread for anxiety or venting about personal issues any way? I'd say if you're going to take things public, take it there. People are going to try and divert away from those topics in the more light hearted threads as much as possible.

Not in a bad way either, just more for keeping the thread on topic.
 
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